Stay in touch with Shadeen at shadeenfrancis. Willie Parker, adrienne maree brown, Dr. You know I love talking with super smart awesome folks on the show, and I also adore fielding your questions. Let's talk about why. Anonymous wrote in because she just can't feel attracted to her boyfriend, especially after seeing pictures of him when he had a more "traditionally attractive" body. How do you know when to stop if you're not using climax as the finish line? But things have been fizzling and his boyfriend is about to move 4 hours away.
I share a few excerpts on the show, but if you'd like the entire document you can find it here.
Sex Gets Real 184: Afrosexology on Black pleasure, masturbation, & radical twerking
I am loving answering your questions this summer, and I'm so glad I'm getting a chance to get caught up on the backlog. Feelings, approaching the Big Round Ball, sexual empowerment, regaining your voice, reframing stories, sexual epiphanies, coming home to yourself, agency, consciously single, people-pleasing tendencies, leaving yourself, core sexual creative energy, asexuality, archetypes, anatomy geek-out on female ejaculation, "New View of a Woman's Body," lousy g-spot research, fantasizing, truck stop train, orgasm, and what it means to be a Woman on Fire! Anonymous confesses that she loves her husband, they have a great sex life, and she had affair. We also talked about the importance of the people around survivors partners, family, friends in getting their own support and holding space for the pain that comes with trauma. You know I love these.